I thank God for my gifts and for giving me strength to heal along my journey. I ask my Angels especially Archangel Gabriel to guide me as I write and I thank them for sending me nudges so these messages are sent at the right time. I hold the intent all of you will take a chance on trust.
Whenever I get these messages about trust I often wonder how the story will go. Trust is one of those things in my life that I’m a little stingy with because it’s hard for me to do. I’m learning but I’m still cautious too. I really wish everyone was trustworthy but life has taught me many are not. So I’m cautious about who I trust and I’m cautious about who I deny trust to as well. I try not to assume or hold grudges because sometimes it’s better to take a chance rather than live in fear that something will go wrong. Like life in general we never know what will happen until we let it happen so I try to look at all the angles before I decide if someone/something is worth my trust. When you learn to trust your gut it makes figuring out who is trustworthy a little easier.
So this one is about clearing cords and learning to trust. I see 222. My son Aydin teaches me so much. He can make me crazy at times but he shows me a lot about myself too. There is something about Moms and their sons, they are our babies and it’s hard to let go and trust the world will be good to them. I have a daughter too but with Rylee I’m more trusting that she will always figure it out and thrive. I want her to be really confident in life so I don’t hold the cord so tight with her. I like her to get out there and live her way. Sometimes she thinks she’s a boy but that’s her way lol. She’s my second child so she didn’t have much of a choice anyway. She was kinda forced to go with the flow lol.
I have a memory of a time with Aydin when he was 5. I keep this memory in my head and every so often it comes back to me and I allow it to remind me to trust. I think we were walking into school and I was behind him and I went to put my hand on his shoulder so I could hold onto him. He shrugged his shoulder and turned and looked at me with a face that was saying “let me fly.” He didn’t say anything to me but I knew by his eyes what he was telling me. So I let go and it was tough but I started to learn how to trust he is ok without me sometimes. Tough moment for a Mom but I still use that memory to help me now that he is 8 and with many other things in my life too. It was a life lesson about how trust and loosening the cords are a necessary part of living a peaceful life.
So trust is one of those areas of life that makes you think. I believe we are all connected as they say but I personally feel not everyone has seen the light within yet and some of the darker souls cause a lot of harm to others. However, people are capable of changing over time and they become a brighter soul. When it comes to trusting another who has once been untrusting to you it’s a bit of a challenge. It’s not wrong to be cautious but sometimes it’s not right to be stubborn. Not to say there are not those times when someone may need a little more work until they find the light. Those are the times when keeping some distance may be the best thing to do for yourself. That’s when working on forgiveness is needed so trust can be built later when the time is right.
For the ones that have changed and forgiveness has been accomplished, building trust would be the next level. Again it’s ok to be cautious but being too stubborn might actually hurt you as well as them too. Ex. Everyone knows what it feels like to be hurt and we all know what it feels like to hurt another. We have all hurt someone or many in our life at some point so if you think for a minute you will recall those people who you have hurt. So what happens when you are the one that was hurt by another? Most of the time you get angry, refuse to look at their reasons for their actions and a lot of times shut them out of your life. So what happens when you hurt another and they don’t forgive you? They stay angry at you, they don’t understand your actions and they usually shut you out because they are afraid you will hurt them again. So whichever side you are on both are painful. To be the one who was harmed feels just as bad as being the one who is not forgiven. I see 888 abundance coming. That’s also a sign that there is about to be a huge weight lifted from a relationship.
When you grow strong enough to release cords and pain then you allow freedom to enter for both sides. Even when you part ways and are no longer physically attached trust still plays a role since you will need to trust yourself in your decision to let go, trust the purpose has been served with the relationship and trust there was a reason why it was a part of your life. If it’s someone who you stay physically connected to then trust there is a reason why this person has not left your life yet. Maybe they are teaching you how to trust again after being hurt? If they are still there then there is still work that needs to be done. On a soul level we all know when it’s time to move away or move closer. Our minds don’t always know this but our souls do it naturally for us. It’s part of the soul contract and sometimes you just need to trust there is a bigger plan than what you can see right now. Think about the people who have come and gone in your life and those who seem to never leave or they show up as needed. It’s interesting once you notice how soul contracts play out in our lives. Some pleasant and some not so pleasant but they all serve a purpose so just trust it’s for a reason and try to do the healing work that’s needed so all souls can feel free.
It’s a rule that you can’t give out what you don’t have within so TRUST has to begin within. You have to release so you can let yourself fly. Just like Aydin teaches me…you have to let go and stumble sometimes but always trust you will survive. Holding on is the same as keeping control. Control and trust do not mix. You can’t have both at the same time. You can’t be stubborn with trust because then you are trying to mix in control and it won’t happen. If you dangle your trust in front of someone and say “if you do this, this and this” then I’ll trust you it’s using control rather than building trust. If you expect someone to trust you but you show nothing and say nothing then it’s you who is using control on yourself since you do not express. Words to follow in life. Communication helps with forgiveness, forgiveness helps to build trust, it takes communication, forgiveness and trust to create a loving relationship. There is no room for control and sometimes there are no guarantees relationships will last but healing will always occur. Healing offers freedom and freedom lets you live without fear because you know you can always get back up if you fall.
People will hurt you, some won’t care that they hurt you, some will continue to hurt you, some will spent their life wishing they didn’t hurt you and some will never hurt you. No matter who it is try your best to open your heart. If they hurt you and continue to hurt you then try to understand no you don’t deserve it and no they should not be in your daily life but they hurt you because they are extremely hurting in their inner world. Observe their actions and observe their life and you will see the pain even if they think they are hiding it you will still see it. If they hurt you and they regret it then try to offer forgiveness because when we see both sides and feel how the other feels it helps us reach a new understanding and then we wish to free the tangled cords. If they never hurt you then be grateful they are in your life and make time to let them know that you care. It keeps the relationship alive too.
A few weeks ago I was getting strong messages from the crows. When I asked for a clear message, one crow flew onto my fence and had a pretzel in its mouth. The pretzel is symbolic for untying knots. Crows are messengers that change is coming and it’s important to trust the changes are necessary even when they seem like they are unfair or confusing. In life when there are tight knots formed because of lack of forgiveness and lack of trust, it literally cuts off peace from entering your mind and heart. There can’t be a healthy flow in a relationship when the kinks exist. It takes work, time and growth to smooth the kinks but each step forward allows more peace to enter for all who are involved.
When we enter this world we really come here to learn. Learn to love and learn to love unconditionally. You need to learn how to communicate, forgive and trust in order to really love unconditionally. It can take an entire lifetime to learn but those are your keys to freedom. Mind, body and soul freedom. When you learn to release the negative thoughts about hurts then you heal your mind. When you learn to release emotions from hurts then your body will function better. When you open your heart and offer forgiveness, listen to another and begin to trust then you have healed your soul and set yourself free.
There are traumas in life. There are so many painful moments that happen so we learn how to cope and pick ourselves up so we can continue on this journey. Life is not easy but life can be a little easier if we don’t hold the cords so tight. It’s a choice to either suffocate yourself by blocking peace or allow yourself to breathe by letting go and loosening the knots. No matter how badly something or someone hurt you there is always a chance to heal. The opportunity is always present but YOU must make the decision to heal.
So try to begin the process of trusting again. There are plenty of people who will never hurt you so do try to avoid being too stubborn with your trust. Cautious is acceptable but stubborn can block good things and people from entering your life. Try to forgive those who have hurt you and when it’s time to trust them again make some small steps towards clearing the cords. There is a life line that connects us all and they only thing that keeps that line clear is love. Love is freedom. Love heals everything. It’s when you are able to open your heart and allow love in, your soul finds peace and helps you untangle the cords.
I asked my kids to pick the cards.
Breathe- it’s crazy how the card always fit too. It’s a sign guiding you to the direction that will be most beneficial for your life. Tangled cords are suffocating so it’s best to release them.
Leadership- I feel this one is telling you that it needs to be YOU who takes the step towards healing the relationship. Go inward for a little bit and see if you are holding a grudge or being a bit too stubborn. Be honest with yourself because it’s about freeing yourself from unnecessary pain.
Love Yourself- a message to let love in and allow yourself to feel peace on a soul level so life can be less painful.
Send Love- telling you to bring the energy of love into any strained relationship. It’s opening the door to healing and once you open the door those who are connected with begin to feel the freedom as the tangled cords clear. It’s a matter of wishing peace for yourself and another rather than being the reason for their pain and suffering in life. The heart never wants to hurt anyone. The ego causes the hurt. Try to see beyond another’s ego and it makes sending love a lot easier.